Development of Self
When I was nine
I needed to believe
I was different
Not exactly the same
As all my friends
So, I created
Invisible friends
Known only by me
With picture words
I introduced my “special friends”
To my ordinary playmates
I wove fantasies into stories
That thrilled my Faithful Followers
They knew
It was not true
But they allowed
Me to pretend
When I was fifteen
I so desperately needed
To be the same
I needed my parents
Indeed my family
To be like all others
Normal
They were not
So I created
A TV family
It did not work
At home
My parents and brothers
Did not like
The series
But my Faithful Followers
Pretended with me
That I was the same
And my home life
Was the norm
When I was eighteen
I needed to be
A good mother
I was not
But I tried
I played all the roles
I had seen acted out on TV
It was not me
My daughter did not know
That I was not great
My friends did
But they turned a blind eye
My parents and brothers
Announced I was a failure
As if that were
Some new revelation!
I knew that!
I always had
But I pretended
My Faithful Followers agreed
I was a “good mommy”
When I was twenty
I needed to be
A perfect wife
My husband wrote the script
I liked the part
But, I knew
It was not me
I learned to act
At times, I was very good
My Faithful Followers
Were most impressed
I had done my best
But
My Director husband
Was not pleased
He demanded
That I totally lose self
In the character he created
I failed
We divorced
My Faithful Followers
Cheered my liberation
When I was thirty
I tried again
This time
I studied my lines
But somehow
I missed the surprise
Ending
I failed
It hurt
I ran away
I needed to be alone
Apart from my roles
Alone
In my personal journey
In search of truth and meaning
As I explored
The thoughts of Freud
The secrets of spiritualism
The images of psychedelics
The mediations of Buddha
My Faithful Followers
Gave me a standing ovation
Did they not see the despair while they were applauding?
When I was alone
I needed God
He found me
Bruised and hurting
Taking me by the hand
He led me
Through the pages of
The Rock of ages
Giving revelation of
Truth and meaning
The new script was powerful
I had the perfect part
I learned my lines
I played it well
This drama permeated
My every waking moment
I was at my best
My family and friends
Could not relate
After the first showing
They cancelled their season tickets
When I was forty
I forgot my lines
My acting became weak
There was no power in my presentation
The gallery of Faith Followers
Now existed in my conscience
And they jeered
Hypocrite!
I was at my worst
How was it possible?
I put so much into this role
It became me
I was it
We were one
What lies beyond the floodlights of Hypocrisy?
When I was a hypocrite
I needed God
He found me
Bruised and hurting
Taking me by the hand
He led me
Through the pages of the Rock of ages
Giving revelation of
His unconditional love
Rock of ages
cleft to me
Let me hide myself in thee
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